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withnail & i.

08/11/09 · Leave a Comment

I love this movie. It’s hilarious & sad & smart, and if you haven’t seen it, you should. Here are some film stills and photos from the making of the movie. Happy rainy Sunday! xo, m

Photos from The Guardian.

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Withnail, I ... and Uncle Monty too. Paul McGann, Richard Griffiths and Richard E Grant take some air in Chelsea, during a brief break in production

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Ringo Starr joins McGann and writer-director Bruce Robinson on the set in Notting Hill. The film was produced by HandMade Films, the brainchild of former Beatle George Harrison

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Grant, Robinson and McGann inside Crow Crag (aka Uncle Monty's cottage).

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Two go mad in Cumbria: McGann and Grant outside Sleddale Hall.

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“What a piece of work is a man! How noble in reason! How infinite in faculties! How like an angel in apprehension. How like a god! The beauty of the world! The paragon of animals! And yet, to me, what is this quintessence of dust? Man delights not me: no, nor women neither. Nor women neither.”

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happiness.

06/11/09 · Leave a Comment

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I can’t remember with whom I was talking, but somehow we got to talking about the H word. A word philosophers have spent thousands of years debating, a word that we think about often but whose meaning escapes us. It’s the age old question of happiness. I think a lot of our thoughts are consumed by the idea of happiness, though they may be veiled in a cloak of desire or longing or even loneliness. It’s so intangible that maybe we push it aside in favor of a discussion of less vague, less important topics.

This person whose identity slips me (I’m debating between my dad and a friend) told me about a play he had seen recently about an unhappy family, and he said the play was less about unhappiness than it was about the quest for happiness. The idea of seeking happiness seems inherently unhappy to me. I don’t think of sunshine when I think of the pursuit of happiness; I see a void, an absence. If we’re searching for something, we acknowledge a lacking, a hole in our lives. Something’s not as we wish it to be, or we lack something we want.

I like to think of happiness in a different way. I don’t think of it as a permanent state or a destination at the end of the line. I think of it like sidewalks in New York. When walking in the city, you will occasionally step on pavement that has little sparkly bits that look like glitter. You’ll come across these paved blocks every so often, and it might make walking that block in the rain a little better. That is happiness to me: this really wonderful feeling that occurs from time to time that makes the unhappiness okay, or almost okay. Sometimes happiness just happens in small moments and doses. Maybe I’m being trite, maybe not.

Maybe our expectations for happiness are so high that we forget those magical, perfect moments in life. You know, when a song fits a situation perfectly and you feel like you’re in a movie. Or you laugh so hard with a friend that your stomach hurts. Or you kiss that cute man, and you feel thrilled. You plug in the lights on the Christmas tree. You do something good for someone, or someone does something good for you.

So those are my two cents (or 300 words) on happiness. It’s there already, I think. Sometimes it just takes a little acknowledging rather than seeking. Wishing you a weekend with sparkly sidewalks. xo, m

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npr tiny desk concert.

06/11/09 · Leave a Comment

I love NPR’s Tiny Desk Concerts, and this one’s particularly good. Marketa Irglova and Glen Hansard are a talented, adorable duo. The first song’s a tad cheesy for my taste, but I love the rest of their new album, and it’s worth watching the performance (or listening to it as you busy yourself with life’s necessities). Enjoy, kiddos. xo, m

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marc jacobs.

06/11/09 · Leave a Comment

Happy Friday AM. I’m just drinking some overly strong black coffee and perusing pretty clothes before doing real work. Wishing everyone a happy, cozy weekend! xo, m

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i (secretly) love the rain.

05/11/09 · 1 Comment

“Let the rain kiss you. Let the rain beat upon your head with silver liquid drops. Let the rain sing you a lullaby.”

Langston Hughes

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light breaks on secret lots.

05/11/09 · Leave a Comment

Here are some of my favorite poems by Welsh poet Dylan Thomas (1914-1953). xo, m

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Light breaks where no sun shines

Light breaks where no sun shines;
Where no sea runs, the waters of the heart
Push in their tides;
And, broken ghosts with glowworms in their heads,
The things of light
File through the flesh where no flesh decks the bones.

A candle in the thighs
Warms youth and seed and burns the seeds of age;
Where no seed stirs,
The fruit of man unwrinkles in the stars,
Bright as a fig;
Where no wax is, the candle shows its hairs.

Dawn breaks behind the eyes;
From poles of skull and toe the windy blood
Slides like a sea;
Nor fenced, nor staked, the gushers of the sky
Spout to the rod
Divining in a smile the oil of tears.

Night in the sockets rounds,
Like some pitch moon, the limit of the globes;
Day lights the bone;
Where no cold is, the skinning gales unpin
The winter’s robes;
The film of spring is hanging from the lids.

Light breaks on secret lots,
On tips of thought where thoughts smell in the rain;
When logics die,
The secret of the soil grows through the eye,
And blood jumps in the sun;
Above the waste allotments the dawn halts.

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A Process in the Weather of the Heart

A process in the weather of the heart
Turns damp to dry; the golden shot
Storms in the freezing tomb.
A weather in the quarter of the veins
Turns night to day; blood in their suns
Lights up the living worm.

A process in the eye forwarns
The bones of blindness; and the womb
Drives in a death as life leaks out.

A darkness in the weather of the eye
Is half its light; the fathomed sea
Breaks on unangled land.
The seed that makes a forest of the loin
Forks half its fruit; and half drops down,
Slow in a sleeping wind.

A weather in the flesh and bone
Is damp and dry; the quick and dead
Move like two ghosts before the eye.

A process in the weather of the world
Turns ghost to ghost; each mothered child
Sits in their double shade.
A process blows the moon into the sun,
Pulls down the shabby curtains of the skin;
And the heart gives up its dead.

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Especially when the October wind

Especially when the October wind
With frosty fingers punishes my hair,
Caught by the crabbing sun I walk on fire
And cast a shadow crab upon the land,
By the sea’s side, hearing the noise of birds,
Hearing the raven cough in winter sticks,
My busy heart who shudders as she talks
Sheds the syllabic blood and drains her words.

Shut, too, in a tower of words, I mark
On the horizon walking like the trees
The wordy shapes of women, and the rows
Of the star-gestured children in the park.
Some let me make you of the vowelled beeches,
Some of the oaken voices, from the roots
Of many a thorny shire tell you notes,
Some let me make you of the water’s speeches.

Behind a pot of ferns the wagging clock
Tells me the hour’s word, the neural meaning
Flies on the shafted disk, declaims the morning
And tells the windy weather in the cock.
Some let me make you of the meadow’s signs;
The signal grass that tells me all I know
Breaks with the wormy winter through the eye.
Some let me tell you of the raven’s sins.

Especially when the October wind
(Some let me make you of autumnal spells,
The spider-tongued, and the loud hill of Wales)
With fists of turnips punishes the land,
Some let me make you of the heartless words.
The heart is drained that, spelling in the scurry
Of chemic blood, warned of the coming fury.
By the sea’s side hear the dark-vowelled birds.

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november.

04/11/09 · Leave a Comment

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Loving this month’s Design Sponge desktop wallpaper. Designed by Camilla Engman, the wallpaper is free to download here. xo, m

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ew.

04/11/09 · 1 Comment

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It's semi-acceptable to stare at these ta tas. But other than hers? No.

Here’s to hoping the person about whom I’m going to rant doesn’t see this. It’s very unlikely he will, so let the little lecture begin.

I’d like to use my blog for good and prevent any male friends from committing the following heinous actions on a first date (or ever, for that matter).

I had a date with a “good on paper guy” last night: lawyer, nice looking, intelligent. So what’s the problem, you ask? He stared at my boobs the entire time. I’m not sure he knows what I look like from above the collarbones, and he maintained more eye contact with my breasts than my eyes.

It was degrading and distracting too. I stopped listening to what he was saying, and my own little internal monologue took over: “Is this guy for real? What happened to subtlety? Yep, this is for real. The last time he looked at my face was about 3 minutes ago. Oh no, he’s ordered another beer.”

At one point, he asked me what my favorite color is. I can’t imagine a more boring topic of discussion, and I responded “green,” mainly because the question and his staring almost made me turn green with nausea.

I wasn’t even wearing anything Dolly Parton-esque, just a nice little colorful cardigan and jeans. Men, let’s keep the staring to a minimum. And if you’re going to do it, for goodness’ sake have some subtlety. Needless to say, this guy asked me out again, and I said no. Boob staring and bad tipping do not a great date make. xo, m

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chelsea hotel #2.

03/11/09 · Leave a Comment

I love this song. Thanks, David. Originally by Leonard Cohen, lyrics appear below. Enjoy the beautiful version by Regina Spektor. xo, m

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I remember you well in the Chelsea Hotel

you were famous, your heart was a legend.
You told me again you preferred handsome men
but for me you would make an exception.
And clenching your fist for the ones like us
who are oppressed by the figures of beauty,
you fixed yourself, you said, “Well never mind,
we are ugly but we have the music.”

And then you got away, didn’t you babe,
you just turned your back on the crowd
you got away, I never once heard you say,
I need you, I don’t need you,
I need you, I don’t need you
and all of that jiving around.

I don’t mean to suggest that I loved you the best,
I can’t keep track of each fallen robin.
I remember you well in the Chelsea Hotel,
that’s all, I don’t even think of you that often.

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“what am i trying to say?”

03/11/09 · Leave a Comment

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“What are you trying to say here?” and “How can we explain that more clearly?”
Perhaps the two most effective questions I’ve learned to ask as a tutor, in part thanks to Mr. Orwell.

I suggest every student read this paraphrased excerpt from George Orwell’s famous essay “Politics and the English Language,” and a discussion about the terms and implications follows. Teenagers are prone to writing things that “sound smart,” yet writing with this motivation in mind usually results in amateur-sounding writing. I soften that for students, but that’s the sad truth of it. Clear  and concise is the way to go, and by George (!!! excuse this pun), it’s certainly more difficult to achieve. Cheers, Orwell! xo, m

A scrupulous writer, in every sentence that he writes, will ask himself at least four questions, thus:

  1. What am I trying to say?
  2. What words will express it?
  3. What image or idiom will make it clearer?
  4. Is this image fresh enough to have an effect?

And he will probably ask himself two more:

  1. Could I put it more shortly?
  2. Have I said anything that is avoidably ugly?

One can often be in doubt about the effect of a word or a phrase, and one needs rules that one can rely on when instinct fails. I think the following rules will cover most cases:

  1. Never use a metaphor, simile, or other figure of speech which you are used to seeing in print.
  2. Never use a long word where a short one will do.
  3. If it is possible to cut a word out, always cut it out.
  4. Never use the passive where you can use the active.
  5. Never use a foreign phrase, a scientific word, or a jargon word if you can think of an everyday English equivalent.
  6. Break any of these rules sooner than say anything outright barbarous.

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the craft of surpassing wisdom.

03/11/09 · Leave a Comment

Gazing Through the Night

Shmuel Ha Nagid
Hebrew/ Spanish (993-1056)

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Gazing through the
night and its stars,

or the grass and its bugs,

I know in my heart these swarms
are the craft of surpassing wisdom.

Think: the skies
resemble a tent,
stretched taut by loops
and hooks;

and the moon with its stars,
a shepherdess,
on a meadow
grazing her flock;

and the crescent hull in the looser clouds

looks like a ship being tossed;

a whiter cloud, a girl
in her garden
tending her shrubs;

and the dew coming down is her sister
shaking water
from her hair onto the path;

as we
settle in our lives,

like beasts in their ample stalls—

fleeing our terror of death,
like a dove
its hawk in flight—

though we’ll lie in the end like a plate,
hammered into dust and shards.

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le sigh.

03/11/09 · Leave a Comment

I’m just a wee bit obsessed with the following shoes & bags by Anthropologie. And I’m posting them on here & gushing rather than going into debt. Enjoy, ladies, enjoy. Here’s to collectively swooning. xo, m

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in the morning glow.

03/11/09 · Leave a Comment

My grandmother loved poetry, and sometimes I look through her old books. Here’s one that she marked “favorite” from a collection of Robert Frost poetry. So lovely. xo, m

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voting treat.

03/11/09 · Leave a Comment

First things first: ballots must be postmarked by today!

Second things second: these little chocolate turnovers are as delicious as pain au chocolat. You should make them today and share with everyone you know who voted.

My mom used to make these easy pastries when I was little, and I placed the little pieces of chocolate on the pastry and folded up the corners. It was like playing with playdo that, after some time in the oven, became a magically delicious treat.

 

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Mike O'Brien wants you to make these and vote.

Chocolate Turnovers

1 (9 1/2-inch-square) puff pastry, thawed according to package directions
1 egg yolk
2 tablespoons heavy cream
2 1/4 ounces semisweet chocolate, cut into 9 pieces

Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Place puff pastry on a lightly floured work surface. Sprinkle pastry with a little more flour, and roll out to form a 12-inch square. Brush away excess flour, and trim edges to make a perfect square.
Cut puff pastry into nine 3-inch squares, and transfer them to a parchment-lined baking sheet. Discard excess.
In a small bowl, whisk together egg yolk and heavy cream. Neatly brush a little of the egg wash along two adjacent edges of each square. Place a piece of chocolate just below the center of each square, and fold down unwashed edges to enclose chocolate and form a triangle. Using your fingers, gently but firmly press puff-pastry edges together to seal.
Place baking sheet in freezer for 20 minutes, or until pastry is chilled. Remove from freezer, and brush tops liberally with remaining egg wash. Place in oven, and bake until triangles are puffed and golden brown, about 15 minutes.

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santa, baby. we’re getting there.

02/11/09 · 1 Comment

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Anyone who knows me well knows I go kind of wild for Christmas. I host a holiday cocktail party. I get a little tree for my place. I buy mistletoe and put a holiday wreath on my door. I own an elf costume (that’s the worst of it, I promise).

The holidays make me feel warm & cozy & grateful for all the wonderful people in my life. You can imagine my delight when I realized, thanks to Eudaimonia, that Anthropologie has started stocking their holiday decorations. Check out some of my favorites below. Plus, I’ve included the a link to the best  sugar cookie recipe. Good for Thanksgiving too. Happy almost-holidays! xo, m

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Sugar Cookies

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Recipe here.

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